Enabling and Resenting
Parents want the best for their children. They envision the best for their children as being that their child obeys, respects, learns, and in general follows the right path. When this vision goes awry and the parent’s fantasy about their life and their child’s life gets shattered, the parents try countless tactics such as reward, punishment, lecturing, manipulating, threatening, and everything in between. Unfortunately, most of these tactics have very little long-term effe

