As a teen and family therapist the most common issue parents bring into the room is that their teenager is defiant, disrespectful, talks back, and yells. When I ask about parenting and discipline in the home it is rare that a parent includes in the description that they themselves yell. Once I dig a little bit, more often than not I find that the parents yell or they do that yelling whisper thing that they say technically isn’t yelling. Raising children can be frustrating a