Movies have been written about it, everyone knows it is going to happen, but few parents know exactly what to do. I am talking about what to do and how to handle parenting when you find out your teen is drinking, using drugs, going to parties, or likely all three. Some parents try the “only drink at home so I can teach you to drink”. While other parents take a steadfast stance against any and all party-type behavior by taking everything away and in essence jailing their te